Neely Fuller, Jr., author of The Code Book, joins Gus T. Renegade on The Context of White Supremacy online radio program to discuss sex between people who classify themselves as “white” and non-white people (Victims of Racism).
Mr. Fuller states that in an effort to present a more refined version of Racism (White Supremacy), the most powerful people in the known Universe (Racist Man and Racist Woman), allow limited access to sex with Racist Suspects to present the illusion that the system of Racism (White Supremacy) is over. Sexual activity between “white” and non-white people is always under control and within limits and is designed to weaken the ability of non-white people to effectively resist Racism (White Supremacy).
Ugh, well he only dates Asian girls. You’re so lucky you’re Asian.
- a friend with a crush on a guy who apparently is afflicted with a social disease called “The Yellow Fever.”
Oh, I’m lucky? I’m lucky. Okay, so you’re saying that I’m lucky that there are guys out there with a “thing for Asians” who will only set their sights on women with small eyes and brown skin like me? I’m lucky that people will proudly proclaim their “Yellow Fever” and make me feel like the only thing that attracted them to me was my race- objectifying me as some kind of exotic treat and not treating me like an individual with value? I’m lucky that when I was internet dating last year, a guy told me that he had found me by searching for ONLY Asian women? I’m lucky that “What kind of Asian are you” is deemed a suitable ice breaker and pickup line for guys who hit on me at parties, clubs, and bars? I’m lucky that I’ve gotten told once under the guise of a compliment that I could make a lot of money in porn because I’m an Asian woman with large breasts? I’m lucky that a couple months into a relationship with my ex, I opened up his computer to check my email and I saw that he had searched “ASIAN” on a porn site and was halfway through a video with a whole bunch of white guys ejaculating on an Asian woman’s face? I’m lucky that ever since that experience I have constantly questioned if any of the other people I’ve been involved with or who have found me attractive only felt that way because I’m Asian? Right. I’m not lucky, sweetie. I’m being objectified, exotified, and hypersexualized. These are not things I will ever aspire to be or be flattered by, regardless of what society may want me to think.
For a while, I admit that I tried to use this “yellow fever” thing to my advantage. It’s incredibly easy to seal the deal with a dude that exclusively has a thing for Asian women. You literally tell them what kind of Asian you are, tell them the words you know in that language, and giggle. Giggle a lot. That’s it! But you know why it’s so easy? It’s because these guys do not give a fuck who I am. I could just as easily be another person entirely. The only thing that matters to these guys is that I’m Asian and everything else is unimportant. And, once I figured that out, it made me sick to my stomach. Settling for being treated like nothing more than an exotic souvenir gets really old really fast. I am a real person. I am an individual with depth and emotion and interests and flaws. My skin and my eyes and where my ancestors came from do NOT make me your tantric Asian sex goddess. And, if you think for one second that I will entertain your exotification of me and my people any longer, you can kiss my brown ass.
…I have absolutely nothing to add to this.
Perfect Post is Perfect.
My friend’s father put it simply: “These white people see us as toys. When they are bored, they will throw you away.”
Are Racist Jokes Ever Okay?
“Michael: How would you feel if I called you ‘Oriental’? Me: Whatever. Michael: Damn it. Why can’t I offend you? How about ‘Slanty-eyed’? Me: *laughs* Michael: I know…’Oriental Delight’. Me: What, am I a danish? That sounds like I’m an Asian danish. Michael: Yes, my little Oriental Delight. Me: You sir, are ridiculous. CodeLens: This was a dialogue shared on Tumblr apparently between a non-white person and her partner, who I suspect classifies himself as “white”. The original title stated the partner was “mildly racist”. Unfortunately, many Victims of Racism are highly confused and there is no such thing as being “mildly racist”, “mildly terroristic” or “mildly pregnant”. Sex with white people confuses non-white people a great deal and like nothing else helps to keep the system of Racism (White Supremacy) going strong.”
So, this amuses me greatly. My partner is apparently a suspected racist/white supremacist/possibly mentally ill.
All I can do is die of laughter. There is nothing further from the truth. I cannot imagine anyone less racist than Michael.
I understand that racist remarks can be incredibly harmful and racism is a terrible thing. However, there is a gradation in the level of harm a remark can do - hence “mildly racist”. Michael calling me his ‘oriental delight’ in a perfectly loving relationship in which we understand the comment to be joking verses Michael’s mother calling me a ‘chink’ - are two entirely different things.
Yes, I find both amusing, but I’m only annoyed by the latter. However, I know enough of his mother to know how to respond to her making such remarks.
Just so we are clear: I am not a victim of racism. I am a strong, independent, and proud Asian in a perfectly loving relationship with a man who cares about me. I have enough confidence, acceptance, and understanding of myself to know when someone is joking and someone is being hurtful. Michael is the former.
Finally, I’m Asian - which means I smell of “maths and rice”. - Thanks, Michael.
Further Analysis on Dialogue Between Suspected Racists
Below are more notes on a dialogue about a potential ‘relationship’ with a black female and a white male which was posted recently.
I doubt the black female in question will be privy to this kind of talk where Racism (White Supremacy) is considered amusing. If she is, would she also be amused? So confused and disoriented, she finds her own degradation a source of laughter? Now, that would be tragic and a scenario that helps highlight why these tragic arrangements are incorrect.
It is not just for the powerful people on the planet to pursue sex with the powerless; it is (akin to) rape. If this is not satisfactory, people who classify themselves as “white” should make it their business to replace the system of Racism (White Supremacy) with Justice as soon as possible.
Suspected Racists Dialogue On Sexually Sewering a Black Female
- Me: So apparently this girl who likes me wants to get back in touch.
- Friend: Do it.
- Me: I don't know. I'm not sure she's right for me.
- Friend: Look; worst case scenario, you can back out at any time.
- Me: But I'd hurt her if I did that. I don't want to start something I'm not prepared to finish.
- Friend: If you don't take risks, you're never going to get anywhere in life.
- Me: I'm not sure she's even right for me. She's about my brother's age, she's black, she's... *gets cut off*
- Friend: Then no.
- Me: Wait, why?
- Friend: She's black.
- Me: And?
- Friend: Dude, dude. Whites are dying out.
- Me: Are you kidding me?
- Friend: We need more white people man.
- Me: So you're only saying "No" because you're against interracial relations?
- Friend: That and black chicks are ugly as Hell. Yeah.
- Me: Well I understand what you mean; but don't ever get on me for being against sex with multiple partners again..
- Friend: Look, I am against it; but it's your choice. Just know your kids will come out all funny skinned.
- Me: I don't care. I care about how I go in. But are you a racist dude?
- Friend: I believe the white race is dying and must be preserved.
- Me: Lol, that just made my day. I can't stop laughing!
- Friend: I was serious.
- Me: I know, that's why it's SO DAMN FUNNY X'D
- CodeLens Note: An assessment of this dialogue is continued in second post: http://codelens.net/post/22659259835/analysis-of-racist-dialogue
We have not said to our sons, brothers, uncles, and cousins that we feel punched in the stomach when you bring your non-black girlfriends into our homes. We don’t tell you how much it hurts us when you say you hate weaves but make it clear by your behavior that the hatred is simply because you don’t want to get tricked into mating with a female who doesn’t have the genes to produce a baby with that hair you deem “good.” Not hair like your own or hair like your father or grandfather’s. I suppose we’re too afraid that you wouldn’t care enough to stop the behavior even if we told you. We haven’t wanted that final confirmation that we mean so little to you. Well, by now, we pretty much have that confirmation. But, the day will come when you’ll have to care about our thoughts and feelings if you’re to have any chance of getting off your knees once you realize you’re there. So I’ll give it to you straight- no chaser about this film Red Tails.